Extreme Negativity
Posted: Sun Sep 29, 2019 6:52 pm
Forgive me if I ramble but:
I feel like there's been either a general uptick in negativity or a decrease in the amount of people who are willing to just be optimistic. Very few suggestions can be made without people immediately going off the deep end and saying stuff like "this server is dead", "the owners don't care", and stuff like that.
While in game it's not uncommon to see people regularly complain publicly about the amount of players that are online. I wanted to discuss with you guys how this is counterproductive.
Imagine for a second you're a new player and you've just logged into the server for the first time. You want to play on a server with a fair few people, a lively community. You've been online for a few minutes and you see someone in yell (a channel you need a rank to use, meaning a player who has been here for a bit of time) yell that the server is dead. "I don't want to play on a dead server," you think, so you just leave. The very people who seem to want to get as many people as possible are one of the first causes for them leaving.
Okay but let's say the person doesn't believe that, and they like the player count they see. So then they make a forums account and see a highly active suggestion thread that was posted recently. The entire thread is someone saying the server sucks and if this new change isn't implemented the whole thing will lose 100% of the players from the already "dead and shitty" wilderness. That's a lot harder to overlook. The people who seem to want to make the server better are now the ones making new players think it's not worth it to begin with.
I'm not saying the only option here is to always say things that are extremely positive to the point of ridiculousness. But I want everyone to remember the power words have over how others feel and keep in mind that being negative, especially negative in a rude way (i.e. "this server is fucking dead and shit") can only hurt the server and never help.
I feel like there's been either a general uptick in negativity or a decrease in the amount of people who are willing to just be optimistic. Very few suggestions can be made without people immediately going off the deep end and saying stuff like "this server is dead", "the owners don't care", and stuff like that.
While in game it's not uncommon to see people regularly complain publicly about the amount of players that are online. I wanted to discuss with you guys how this is counterproductive.
Imagine for a second you're a new player and you've just logged into the server for the first time. You want to play on a server with a fair few people, a lively community. You've been online for a few minutes and you see someone in yell (a channel you need a rank to use, meaning a player who has been here for a bit of time) yell that the server is dead. "I don't want to play on a dead server," you think, so you just leave. The very people who seem to want to get as many people as possible are one of the first causes for them leaving.
Okay but let's say the person doesn't believe that, and they like the player count they see. So then they make a forums account and see a highly active suggestion thread that was posted recently. The entire thread is someone saying the server sucks and if this new change isn't implemented the whole thing will lose 100% of the players from the already "dead and shitty" wilderness. That's a lot harder to overlook. The people who seem to want to make the server better are now the ones making new players think it's not worth it to begin with.
I'm not saying the only option here is to always say things that are extremely positive to the point of ridiculousness. But I want everyone to remember the power words have over how others feel and keep in mind that being negative, especially negative in a rude way (i.e. "this server is fucking dead and shit") can only hurt the server and never help.